Fixed mindset says my talents are innate. This is what I’ve got. These are my God-given or nature-given talents, and they’re what I’m stuck with. I’m bad at math but good at English. I’m great at hockey but bad at tennis. I’m bad with people but good with computers. The rough shape of who I am is a fixed thing.
Growth mindset says I can get better. Yeah, I’ve got what I’ve got, but with effort I can grow. If I practice my math, practice my backhand, practice my social skills, they can be better. I can be better. Over time, I can change the rough shape of who I am.
I believe in trying to maintain a growth mindset. When you struggle, recognize it, make a plan for growth, and execute that plan.
